She basically said, well if you werent listening at the door you wouldnt be upset right now. Good luck. But it needs to be on your terms. He was literally a running joke to all of them. Her motivation doesn't change that the fact that you deserve someone that stands up to their friends. She betrayed your trust, and she makes fun of your sexuality to her friends? Itll be hurtful to both of you for a long time and you probably both need therapy but if you truly do love each other, itll be worth it. Wife: " (my name) I dunno what your heard but it's not what" Me: " (wifes name) I know exactly what I heard." I turned around and stormed off to our room. Don't rush the feels phase. Ive been with my partner for 5 years. Personally I think you handled as well as could be expected - what with confronting the issue right away and pulling consequences for her violating your very personal boundary/secret. Smoked. I don't think she is disinterested in the guy, but I will say I don't tolerate that kind of weakness. I'm getting angry just sitting here cause I've personally witnessed this so many times. Thats so tough. My step-dad said, "I feel like I always have to watch what I have to say, and I shouldn't have to worry about . Partners that demand that have no respect for you. Had a similar situation with my best friend. Then one girl left and all of a sudden the other girl is giving pointers! There's a lot that isn't adding up about her explanation to you. That's plain shitty. If they outed me and mocked our sex life with their friends, I would never be able to be intimate with them again. Hope everything works out with you guys. Tell her to flip the genders and make it you and the "boys" doing "locker room talk" about her and all the things she likes in the bedroom. I used to drink to black out, and not one time did I let slip the secrets I held for my friends and family. She should genuinely make amends for it and admit to your so called friends her hand in the situation! Not to mention she outed him and didn't even come clean and let him know, instead allowed the jokes to flow for a couple years - that's pretty unforgivable. She let slip things that suggests she views OP inferiorly. Ok. No partner with a shred of empathy or decency would value the opinions of their friends over their partner's wellbeing. That's awful. If everything else is great, and she is genuinely remorseful, and willing to work on your relationship, I don't see why you should write off your life together. Youre delusional. People do stupid shit. Also sound out the wives who weren't judgemental and ask their opinions. He said if i wanna get together for a drink or whatever to let him know. Ask her about it, give her the space to openly address it and dually try and understand why she feels that way as well as highlighting why you two are together. Nowadays? Get used to me being stupid". I mean the "I overheard my wife say something upsetting about me to her friends" genre is a little played out. Do you love her more than anything? Like who knows what other shitty conversations she participated in, especially since this isn't the first time they've expressed this kind of thinking. Would she have ever stood up for you and put her friends in place? Tuesday night we hosted a small gathering (all vaxxed) with some of our couple friends. Continuing to discuss, lie and joke about the issue for years is where the problem is. I would keep notes about what's promised and then see what she manages to do about it going forward (should you decide to stay with her). This crap has been swimming around for TWO FUCKING YEARS. I'm glad she apologized. This seems to be an unpopular opinion, but I kind of agree with you. Both were pretty against it and kind of gave me a hard time about trying it with my husband and even liking it. Emasculated. This doesnt excuse anything. She might actually be into the stuff you guys do but is pressured by her friends to be a shitty person. I am a very chill guy. Remind her of this without judging. Finding this out, I personally dont know if I could get past it. It sounds more like it's a matter of comfort and trust. We had a group of our friends over and as the night went on we all kind of busted out into little groups. Next I called my wife. My only advice is to give it time. What else is she keeping from OP? The bigger problem seems to be that she's embarrassed of it, not willing to stick up for it/you, and is willing to lie to her friends to fit into what they want her to be. Youre not overreacting. How you treat your relationship with your wife is up to you, but I would say to her that her friends are homophobic and need to never come by the house again. Especially when it all seems to have been going well. Your wife betrayed your trust, and knowingly let her friends make homophobic comments. They were basically talking about me (no one contacts me anymore, just my wife to commend her on how loyal she is despite having a douchebag loser husband), and I overheard her agreeing with the person on the phone. Neither is divorce. Good luck and I do feel for you. Yup. It was a private part of your life that you trusted her with. Did she give me advice? Your anger is justified, but breaking up your wonderful family over this is too much and a shame? If I was you I would demand you get into couples therapy, and make absolutely clear that the trust you had in her is gone and it is going to take time for that trust to be rebuilt. She blamed drinking for outing you in the beginning and now shes blaming it again in this situation. I am so sorry this has happened to you. Wife: Oh, nothing just a funny story from (friends name) work. You can be understanding of her error, but she has to build up trust back with you. They don't have her best interest at heart and they will just as quickly sow seeds of doubt to her evidently impressionable mind. And what the fuck do you expect?? The Geni has escaped from the bottle, as there's no chance of putting it back in, you need to deal with the humiliation that you feel in how it was told. As far as your confidence goes, why has that taken a hit? Trust your gut, make the proper judgements, and most importantly bounce the fuck back. So does she. Decide what you need to keep the relation ship going. My suggestion? Idc who they are. Period.. And regarding the "I let it slip while drunk" part, she's still responsible for her acts while drunk, and if she isn't she shouldn't be drinking. Oh buddy, I'm sorry you've had this happen to you. This issue has been going on and at each turn, she chose not to be honest with you. The other men were cowering in my path - perhaps it was the still throbbing splitting seams. They'll only hear "he likes sex with men. It sounds like her friends are shit. I turned around and stormed off to our room. Take care of yourself, you have the right to take more time if you need it. Dont just jump straight to divorce. Don't ruin your relationship because of this. I wouldn't be able to think of anything else when having sex with her after hearing her criticize me. So she's been hiding this for a couple years instead of letting him in on all the jokes behind his back. Take your time, make sure you heal on your timeline not hers. I know from experience when you say Ill kinds of shit and they say whatever makes your friends happy or agree especially if youre drinking and they all laugh about it I believe your wife really does love you but she needs to stand up for you with your friends and those friends arent real friends so they have no business in your home do you need some serious counseling for your children sake. My mom wasnt even home, I had forgotten she was on vacation. No real worries there. Prepare to be known as 'that guy who is really sensitive about his sexuality". Its just so cowardly and shows she's not on your team. Go out and do things during those days, don't wallow. And can think clearly. Not the act itself. If it was truly an accident, she shouldn't keep talking about it, she should always just say "I fucked up in telling you that. Please think about going to individual counseling as well as couples counseling! Third, it is really nobody's business if you are Bi, and nobody should care about it anyway. However you talk shit no doubt with your friends you would probably never want her to hearbwe can all be thoughtless assholes from time to time She chose you I'm not saying you overreacted must off been devastating to hear but it sounds like overall you guys have a good and loving relationship unless you are truly broken by this you need to talk and work out where you are now and whether this is repairable or not situation. There were many times where we wanted to throw in the towel. I would DIE if my husband mocked me being bi like your wife did. I think that sometimes both men and women have a form of locker room talk with their friends about topics that maybe they arent entirely truthful about with their friends in order to make them feel better. This is not helpful but wow. Therefore I would talk to her about her views on it and, if necessary, go to couples therapy on this. She pulled her friends into your marriage and made you the butt of a running joke. Also, people who have satisfying sex lives dont talk about it, just like people who have actual wealth dont have to tell you). Many of your friends and family pick up on this anyway. I want to know how shes going to deal with her friends going forward. She outed you to your group of friends without asking you about it. Just as all good things come to an end, so too do all the bad things. My take: there may be some truth in her fabrications to her friends, which makes her even worse. Sorry if this is all over the place. These ones sound terrible. Yet, evrything else you've said indicates that she does value you: this relationship was not strained up until this point, and nobody (apart from some really messed up people) can "play pretend" for so long. Watch your back op!! Especially with the "gay" things they do. So what you should do? She immediately started apologizing and saying she loves me and it was drunk girl talk and she didnt mean anything. Life is transient. Then, when I was in the bathroom (just outside of their bedroom door), I could hear them talking about me. We hung on because we truly love each other and that is what really counts. How you deal with this will depend on how you two communicate about it. She NEVER told me this. I would divorce my husband if he let his friends make comments about my sexuality, and then proceeded to say he fantasized about other women during sex. OP, Ive never been in your shoes but I can empathize with flat out betrayal. Most people in the comments seem to be going off of the deep end here. Gaslight, blameshifting, shamming, begging by the end and finally divorce. Outing you accidentally is one thing, but there are a load of major no-nos here. They all laugh. It's not their sex life that she discussed, it's HIS sexuality, something he stated he largely kept private. She told him that he was drunk and that no she hadn't told me. I wouldnt let her off the hook easily, but we all say and do some dumb stuff and I think she deserves a chance make it up to you and resolve the situation. I mean, what you probably should have done was just walk quietly back to the garage and talk about it in private with your wife later- like an adult. It may actually be useful separating your real friends from the judgemental ones. But Im not sure I know anyone who hasnt. My conjecture is that she did so because of the above reasons basically to seem cool. It was never between you and them anyway. Good luck! Im bi and from a close knit, homophobic religious family. Its unsettling that she would remain friends with people who dared to judge her in that way, and that she even tries to gain their approval by talking trash about the beautiful sex you two get to have together. I could only imagine how crap you feel right now. They were together for 3 years. But please know this, todays generation can say theyre in the exact same boat as you and face no issues from same aged folks. I don't know that I could ever trust and be vulnerable with her again. I have one person I talk to sometimes about my gf. A Young Boy Hires Prostitute For One Hour 42:46. I'm not saying she will, I don't know her and can't make that call. Which means wherever you gothere will be a little voice in the back of your mind wondering if people are judging you or talking shit about you behind your back, I'm not sure how you move forward in this situation but I would suggest individual therapy and couples counseling.as well as asking her to put some distance between her and the people she ran her mouth to, I would suggest individual therapy and couples counseling.as well as asking her to put some distance between her and the people she ran her mouth to. I told her she needed to answer everything I ask her honestly and she promised she would. She seems like a good egg caught in a bad moment however. If I were OP, the answer to this would play a big part in how/whether I wanted to proceed in the relationship. Your wife really messed up. Your wife probably didn't want to admit in front of her friends that she likes that you're into butt stuff and initiates most of the time. She's probably said more and worse in the past two years the women have known. I think it's too late for couples counseling. Thats her game, and I suggest therapy and also congratulate you, my dude, on taking it so calmly. Your wife is a cowered. Winston Churchill Including mutual friends that were homophobic and a girl who hated my guts (and my ex totally knew about those things). I think it wouldve been different if maybe she had some concerns and needed someone to confide in about it, but she shouldve never allowed them to speak about you that way. I think your wife is genuine when she said it was just drunken girl talk and that she was intimidated into saying things because of her friends. Not buying it. Dont let your wifes shitty behavior ruin your confidence and self worth. Would she still have the friends over knowing how they feel? OP, be worried that you're married to someone willing to lie about how they feel about you to have a better image for their friend group. This opens up two main issues, and a third tangential one, as follows: In the first scenario: She crossed a boundary and (un)consiously violated your trust. Is going to take a very long time to fix such fuckery. I understand you were angry and not thinking straight, but that is besides the point. I'm sorry. But then she says.the only hurdle I had to get past with (me) was.well, you guys know.they all were kinda like mhmm as if to affirm they knew what she was talking about. Im scrolling Reddit at night because its an escape from my own personal issues, so I might not be connecting some dots. Your wife's unfortunate refusal to do the same speaks to her character too. I'd be crushed if I heard my wife's friend's say something like that, and then she just hangs me out to dry instead of standing up for me. BS. She shouldnt care what others think of her or you, let alone talk about you negatively behind your back. I am a firm believer that most things can be worked through. This was betrayal. She's just shown you that you can't trust her with your sexuality. This is a recipe that you can utilize to get through a tough circumstance or even a bad day. Id say therapy but honestly no, she knows she fucked up and instead of standing up for you, let it happen. She needs new friends what a bunch of assholes. She stopped criticizing after that. Right? Ebony milf with big tits, shaking young boy's cock in rough modes 06:00. Been with each other for roughly 4 years. One friend asked her if she considered it and she said yes but ultimately she chose to stay with me because I made her happy and treated her better. Im healthy and fit, exercise frequently and eat well, so that kind excludes most physiological causes. She values her homophobic friends' opinions more than your feelings. You're not overreacting at all. You deserve so much better than this. I am so pissed off on OP's behalf. I would not have been able to control myself the same way no doubt. A marriage counselor should probably be your first step. We have been married for more than 10 years and have . My dad was bisexual and if I heard my mother saying shit like that about him Id be livid. So she outed you, and joked with friends about fantasizing about other men during sex because of your sexuality? Therapy is the next logical step. It's mainly drunk talk and a bit of peer pressure getting to your wife and she clearly regrets it We all make mistakes sometimes but this is how you grow as a couple! I'm just saying people can be stupid. I turned to my wife with a raised eyebrow and announced I guess you didnt have me pegged to be a man that would stand up for himself! And I majestically brushed my cape back and walked right out of the house. I was going to say something identical. No true friend will stab you in the back. First off, sorry, if a man and woman are doing sexual things together, it isn't gay. She used your innermost private information (your sexuality) as fodder for gossip and jokes. Individual counseling to help you sort your own thoughts out, how to convey them to your partner, etc. Genuine apologies matter so I guess gage how genuine you think she is or if shes just upset she got caught? I reckon that weve all said things we wouldnt want our SO to hear at some point. What drops it a full letter grade for me is that the protagonist is always an Abercrombie model. And be prepared to put the fear of God, who loves bi and gay and straight people, and in Whose name marriage vows are made, into this Tom-person. You definitely have every right to be upset and angry, but I honestly feel like she is telling you the truth, and they were just unfortunately things you werent supposed to hear. All of us are who we are meant to be, at this particular time in our life. There were 3 friends with her. Dont slide back to her. I probably wouldnt have. She needs to understand that at least. If my wife did this, I doubt I'd ever care to be into intimate with her again. One day he throws a temper tantrum, and instead of talking with me about his insecurities, he goes off and tells everyone about it. Sorry you had to deal with this man, your wife sucks. You need to learn how to deal with being outed and your stupid wife needs to understand the true ramifications for you. Good luck and I do feel for you. She sounded way too comfortable with what she was saying (based on OP's description. Chin up man. If she truly care about your feelings, she would not have put you down to make herself look and feel better. You are joke to your wife she have no respect for you at all. But one thing I have realized is that you should be proud of who you are as a person, sexual preferences included. German Young Boy Seduce Big Tit Step-Mom to Lost Virgin 16:20. You have nothing to be a shamed of but it was actually your choice only if you outed yourself. I'm not sure what her motivation was with not being up front with you about all of this, especially the telling her friends of your sexuality. I absolutely agree. Bruuh this is too much for me I'm 52 yrs old, veteran, communications workers close to company retirement, whatever you do just enjoy life. So no being friends with intolerant halfwits, and no more alcohol. If after you calm down you still feel like being together, I would even consider moving out. personally id be filing for divorce right away, being outed alone can be dangerous let alone your own partner then further breaking your trust by cracking jokes about your sexuality. I got in my car and drove to my moms house. I am not open about my sexuality. Why would she tell them you enjoy costumes? You don't want her or the kids hanging around with him. You poor man, I so want to give you a hug. Not one woman was shocked or uncomfortable, just derogatory. Don't leave mate just get a bit of counselling to talk through your feelings about this situation with her and get some grounding. Its fucked up to add that to a conversation just to pile on and humiliate her own husband. I think you did the right thing by leaving that night, although blowing up the party that was might not have been the best idea. we're both 28. Anyone that believes stay for the kids has literally never had any experience as a kid whos parents stayed for them. From one bi to another, I'm sorry you had to go through this, it's a bisexual's nightmare scenario to hear your long-term partner say this kind of shit. If so, I think you should try. 3. But she also initiates in the bedroom a lot, which means at least the main idea of her bullshit is false. Stay strong man I can only hope you can move on from this with your confidence restored. "My. I would 100% be considering divorce over this, if in OPs shoes. If alcohol was involved the first time she told them, maybe she was talking about it because she wanted to get a read on how her friends would react. She should immediately be defending you if they're bigots and jerks about your sexuality. She is trying to write this shit off as a mistake. Be kind anyway. It's tough because that level of betrayal is seriously enraging, but, do you throw away a good thing? Regardless, hilarious. Ngl bro the first halve is disrespect enough, you now know she keeps important shit to herself like Tom tryna derail your marriage and is at the same time comfortable sharing your personal life with her friends and entertaining her friends disrespecting you in your own home. How much more reassurance do you need? Thats pretty telling. First of all, you're right to cool down before making decision on anything. Maybe you should ask him if that not problem why he upset. Standard Group Plc HQ Office, The Standard Group Center,Mombasa Road. And her dissing your sexual needs to her friends and I truly understand that it was very hurtful and disrespectful to you and your marriage. Sorry bro, no words. My mom was told me drunk words are sober thoughts. I am not straight, nor am I gay. How long has she been friends with them? Do those stupid things include degrading your bisexual SO to friends with homophobic views? I genuinely thought we were in love, until I overheard her on the phone recently remarking to a friend that she feels she settled for me and thinks about her ex every day. You heard the truth when she was talking to her friends, about your private life, without your knowledge. To at least one person. You must not lose faith in humanity. Beer runs out so I head inside to grab more. Would she have thrown Tom under the bus like that to entertain her friends ignorance? First of all, I don't trust your wife. Does it not show a serious weakness in character that she bull shitted like that? I have never discussed my sexual relationship with my husband with them, and theyve never discussed their sex lives with their partners with me (because were all married or long term now, and thats just inappropriate. 2.) Throwaway cause I know one of her friends is an avid reddit user and knows my main account. Being shitty is easy, being a good person is too Clearly choices have been made. And without trust, you have nothing. Best to you. It's human nature. Sounds like she cares more about what her friends think than how you feel. Wife talks shit to friends to be funny/gossip/have fun, and does not honor the trust that was placed in her. I only started being a little open about it when I moved 3 states away from them and was dating a supportive partner. I packed a bag, kissed the kids goodbye, and told them I was going to grandmas house to help her with something. If you find happiness, people may be jealous. It very much is and if you let them gaslight you and suppress how you actually feel, you will feel a huge burden and trust issues for the rest of your life. Sounds like shes really sorry. As Ive gotten older and talked/listened to more and more people, it definitely seems like most toxic masculinity stems from mens encounters with women they trusted, not other men. After a very long silence, she said, "I guess we'll see how it all comes out in the wash anyway." They went to bed soon after. She forced him out, and its time for her to join him. Your actions are your actions and the consequences are the consequences. Or even a long drive. It's so important when you have a union of two souls to do everything you can to make sure that your love stays connected and flourishes. But we hung on. It sucks. But it does happen and people can surprise you. Its inappropriate her friends would gush over her ex with her (a married woman): I dont want to hear anyone talking up some guy I used to date while Im with someone else. Fucking judgemental pieces of shit. Also, she may have "let it slip" 2 years ago, but obviously they've all talked about it since. Take care of yourself, and good luck. You will never have that trust again. Based on the way she acts in private i would think you are right in your opinion. There are hundreds of roles people play all the time. Wife and I have been married 7 years and its literally the marriage everyone wants. 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